remember your greatness

An old shepherd found a lost lion cub. Worried for the cub's safety, he raised him among the sheep. Over time, the lion cub adapted, acting just like the sheep. As years passed, he became a sheep by association, no longer remembering he was truly a lion..

One night a fierce beast threatened the flock. Despite his sheepish ways, the lion felt something stir within. 
Seeing his reflection in a nearby pool of water, the lion remembered who he was. Faced with staying a sheep, or becoming the lion he was meant to be the lion embraced his power and set out to become the lion king he was meant to be.

This is the journey we must make as men. The journey of embracing authenticity by shedding societal expectations and discovering the true self and unlimited potential. 

What is Kinsmen?

Kinsmen is a global Brotherhood that embraces hierarchy, authenticity, and honour. Like a modern day Knights Templar, Kinsmen emphasis respect and status gained through a commitment to a shared code of honour. 


Kinsmen strive to realise their potential and maintain accountability to the men beside and above them. Kinsmen acknowledge and celebrate achievements and milestones through ceremonies and rituals, reinforcing the importance of personal progress and brotherhood.

Reasons to join Kinsmen 

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    Discover your path  with Kinsmen. We guide men to come back to themselves by providing a clear path to personal growth, mentorship, and service.  Find your power, reignite your purpose, understand your mission, and regain control over your life.
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    At Kinsmen, men will discover how to reclaim their power, overcoming fear, doubt, indecision, or inaction. Learn to lead with clarity, take decisive action on your dreams, and inspire greatness in yourself and others. It's time to stop relinquishing your power to external influences and take charge of your own destiny.
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    At Kinsmen, we empower men to cultivate stronger connections with their wives, fostering deep intimacy and mutual respect. Instead of feeling lost like ships in the night, we guide men to have fulfilling relationships and redefine the purpose of work, providing not just money but a fulfilling sense of direction and purpose in family life.
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    Kinsmen is a brotherhood—a tight-knit kin cultivating resilience, camaraderie, and courage. Dispelling the myth of the Lone Wolf, Kinsmen offers the strength of connection and support. Here, trust and loyalty bind individuals, fulfilling a man's inherent need for belonging to a group. Men find meaning and purpose, contributing to something greater than themselves.
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    At Kinsmen, men will learn to embody pride and nobility. Discover your rightful place in the world and understand your inherent worth. Aspire to earn respect, recognising that you are not destined for mediocrity or normalcy. Embrace the extraordinary within yourself and redefine your path.
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    At Kinsmen, men learn the art of embodying both bravery and morality, strength and kindness. Discover the balance of being stoic in times of crisis and affectionate at home. Become a loving husband and father, a loyal friend and brother, while also acquiring the competence to not just survive but to confidently lead in times of disaster.
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    Break free from societal moulds at Kinsmen—embrace your true self without judgement and live authentically. Release frustration and live the vision you've always had for yourself.
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    In a world often devoid of accountability, Kinsmen have personal responsibility and are accountable to the men beside and above them. Kinsmen have clear goals, foster a non-judgmental environment, and surround themselves with a supportive community committed to growth. Join a close-knit group of men where integrity and principle matter.

The Transformational journey of Men

Phase One: A man's ordinary world becomes unbearable due to struggles or a whisper that urges him to venture into a path of self-discovery.

The most significant disease and suffering of man is unrealised potential. Dying inside, complacent, and powerless, life is filled with mediocrity compared to what you KNOW you are capable of.

You live in frustration because you are not living authentically to the vision you had of your life.

health power is something never known to you, so you fear your anger. Feeling powerless, you become more passive as the years go on.

You face challenges and struggles alone without the support of a brotherhood of honourable men.

You are disconnected from your wives, lacking the intimacy you crave. You go to work, provide money for the family and do not even know why you are doing it.

Society domesticates you; they tell you how to act and how to think, and evolving definitions of masculinity cause you to feel lost or conflicted about your roles.

Phase Two: A man's world undergoes deliberate dismantling and deconstruction when he embraces transformation with humility and surrender. Guided through trials by a knowledgeable mentor, he faces the beast inside.

Igne natura renovatur integra - Through fire, nature is reborn whole.

Only when stripped of everything you know, can you truly find yourself. The negative thoughts that hold you back are not you; let the dead parts of yourself go. Time to stop handing over your power due to fear, doubt, indecision, or inaction. Here, you explore the dark, unexpressed parts of yourself you are trying to repress. Hiding behind the beast you fear is the treasure you seek.

Men are scared of what is unknown and the dark parts of us. Only when we shine a light on them will we regain our power. It's tough for a man to admit he is not doing well because it reveals weakness; the last thing any man wants to do is feel weak and a burden. You cannot do this alone; the lone wolf myth has destroyed honour, morals, and values in men.

You need a sacred space to do that with the support of a brotherhood of honourable men. Venture beyond manmade limitations, release frustration and start living authentically.

Phase Three: After completing the initiation and navigating the transformative journey, a man emerges with a restored sense of self. The journey concludes with re-emergence and revitalisation so he can share his wisdom and gifts with the world.

The world needs men to remember their greatness, inspiring and leading others away from the dark paths they tread. In obtaining newfound power, a man requires the support of fellow men to shape and form a sacred container—a vessel that holds him accountable.

A conscious man is defined by the strength to live, courage to lead, and wisdom to inspire. In the Renaissance era, men were not only excellent philosophers but also embodied strength, handsomeness, character, and charisma. The Latin maxim "Vincit qui se vincit" encapsulates the essence that those who conquer themselves conquer the world, exuding energy and magnetism. Confidence, a power that resides within, awaits harnessing and expression.

A man utilises his power to lead with clarity, take action on dreams, and inspire greatness in others.

How does it worK?

Honour is more powerful than rules and laws in shaping human behaviour.

Brotherhood

Local Kin is where men gather weekly for support, belonging, accountability, and rituals that create collaboration and connection.

Masculinity Redefinition

Learn to live with honour, build character, resilience, self-worth, confidence and have presence.

Mentoring and role modelling

Find purpose and meaning through leadership, being a role model and sharing wisdom.

Accountability and guidance

Encouragement during difficult times. Celebration of Milestones. Start on a journey of self-reflection and self-discovery. 

“Honour is the moral imperative of men; obedience is the moral imperative of boys.”

Art of Manliness

Lone wolf no longer

The myth of the lone wolf refers to the romanticised notion that individuals can achieve success, independence, and fulfilment by operating entirely on their own, without relying on others or being part of a larger community. However, this myth overlooks the inherent social nature of Men and the numerous benefits of brotherhood, accountability, and belonging.

three foundational pillars of Kinsmen

The Kinsmen Code is an Honour code comprising 12 virtues formulated from cultures worldwide. The code is a moral imperative for men, shaping their behaviour, character, and reputation. It guides men to fight mediocrity and live to their potential. Through living according to the honour code, men gain recognition and status within their Kin.

Strength

Mind

You are driving the bus, born a lion, raised a sheep to return to a Lion.


Body

Physically challenging yourself by doing hard things. Experience what your body is capable of.


Emotional regulation

Choose the emotion that suits your desired outcome, not reacting with your default.


Spirit

Have mental fortitude and take the bull by the horns.

Respect

For yourself

Keep the promises you say to yourself. How do you perceive yourself vs your actions.


From others

Close the gap between who you think you are and whatever everyone else can see. How the world experiences you vs who you believe you are.


Role model the way

Leading the way, have a fine reputation to live up to.


Authority

Earn respect for what gifts you bring to the world.


Generosity of spirit

Empathy and compassion for those below you.

Accountability

Lone wolf myth vs. Lion mentality

Independence vs. Interdependence.


Live to the Honour code

Vertical and Horizontal honour. Accountable to the men beside you and above you.


Radical responsibility

Taking absolute responsibility for your part to play in a situation and knowing you have the power to change it.


Discipline

Accountable to yourself to do what is required.


Purpose

Accountable to something bigger than you. God. Source. Universe. Mission.

About Me.

I help men reinvent for the sake of personal, mental, financial and spiritual abundance.

My specialty is life reinvention—I support men willing to invest in themselves to transform everything: where they want to live and work, what they do, their physique, the intimacy in their relationships, or who they want to wake up with.

I guide you to remember your greatness and help you see what you can’t see—and show you how to realise your power, presence and potentiality by casting off the old beliefs, stories and boyish behaviours holding you back.

Why is reinvention so vital to me? It saved my life and helped me live my dreams with abundance and courage rather than a life of disconnection, lacking intimacy, and distractions.  

My guarantee is I practice what I preach. I never teach anything I don’t implement in my life, despite how painful and hard it is. I stand side by side with you on the journey—every step.

Men come to me to know their place in the world, to move away from darkness and distraction to have power that comes within, magnificent presence and to unlock their true potential. 

They tap into their wellspring of abundance and find the more they evolve, every area of their life improves.